"Violator Culture then is essentially a product culture, one devoid of human reality and existence. It refuses to accept a human being as someone above a product. It is a refashioning of slave culture, where individuals are property instead of Beings. A violator has complete access to a person if the violator determines that person is giving signals of “selling”. The violator takes possession and the victim is now used and discarded in the exact same way as inanimate objects. The essence, the framework, of slavery culture still exists then in this mentality that far too many individuals adhere to without thinking."
"They were asking for it" is also a means to maintain the violator culture. It has the form of a transaction. The victim, to the abuser mindset, requested a service/transaction. The violator was providing a product. It then becomes "unfair" to the violator that the victim objects. To the violator it is a part of commerce, business as usual. And as the culture is based on commerce, the victim is blamed for "ignorantly manipulating the market".
Kanye West, Swagga Like Us (via thewriterscaravan)
Anyone who blames a victim instead of a violater, anyone who says the victim is at fault, is essentially saying that given a set of circumstances that allows for it, they themselves would violate another person. It’s the mentality of tyrants.